unbalanced server

I think it's important to remember that, from its beginning, DAoC was never meant to be balanced on a class-by-class basis. The classes are different from each other and always will be. There will always exist class imbalances where one class has more or less utility/DPS/whatever than other classes and even when taken as a whole the classes of one realm may have more or less utility/DPS/whatever than the classes of another realm. What is vastly more important to look at is the overall realm performance in PvE and RvR in comparison with the other two realms.

If each realm is able to perform approximately equally to the other two realms, then the server as a whole is balanced. That takes into account realm populations as well as the various abilities of each class and how they are distributed. If one realm is significantly under- or over-performing OVERALL in RvR or PvE (not just individual classes within that realm, but the server-wide population of that entire realm) then adjustments should be made but complaining about differences between individual class compositions is not likely to get much traction.

I'm not part of the dev team so I don't have access to the raw numbers to see how the realms are doing in overall RvR and PvE statistics but a question you might want to consider asking is, "Have each of the realms been able to gain control of their own and/or other realms' relics?" If the answer to that is "yes" then that's a good sign that each realm is able to perform competitively with the others. While minor tweaks to individual classes are still going to continue, if the answer to the above question is "yes" then the devs probably don't need to consider a major overhaul of your favorite realm or mine.

At least, that's how I see it.