I've only been on this server a short time, but one thing is clear the ease of switching Realms is a problem in respect to bandwagoners leaping to whichever Realm has the most relics. I suggest implementing a system that penalizes such players in what seems to motivate players the most, Realm Points. The exact details could vary but the general idea is to get the full RP rewards you must not have switched from another realm for some time (weeks/month). Perhaps switching to Realm that has no relics from one that has extra relics could have a shorter cool down or no penalty at all, but switching to a Realm that has another Realms relics a significant reduction for a significant time ought to be imposed. Something like a 20-30% penalty that reduces over time.