Got in, I used proxy 1, chose character page 6, i finally got a loading screen but it froze and had to esc out, then I tried character page 0 with proxy 1 and got in.
okay so I went into the Programs Files > EA > Phoenix (my name for my new folder that has Phoenix in it) > Dark Age of Camelot --double clicked the original Camelot folder, let it patch up, then double click the Phoenix icon there to start the game. I didn't choose any poxy .. and I had to hit ESC 3 times on the load in page before it finally let me in the game. Hope it helps!