imo the GvG system is a bad system.  But, there should at least be some visual marker if a group is on the list.  VERY often, in a small man we will come across a large fight.  We often assist our realm .. Then the friendly realm members will pull off and let my small man die.  I understand that they are trying to get a clean fight.  If I knew they were a GvG fight I would not add.  I would like it a lot if they were confined to an instance arena .. but the next best thing would be to have some kind of visual marker.  A large pennant flag, a tall light column, something.  It is a socially toxic system currently.  It looks a lot like cross-realming to people who do not know about the system.